Part of the fantasy of every betrayed person is that 1 day the person who hurt you will come back and answer all your questions and apologize for hurting you. But the thing is... They won't. They'll die a liar abd will feel good about themselves. And that's how selfish they are. They can't give closure, you have to find it yourself. You get angry with them. Then get over them. Bless them in your mind and have peace with yourself. And when or if that person comes back, then you can say "Hi" and "Goodbye" in the same sentence...